How to identify a toxic relationship?
Any union can be called a toxic love relationship in which a person or both partners suffer, are humiliated, do not feel loved, complete, needed, their rights and freedom are infringed, opinion is not taken into account, etc. A toxic relationship is when you simply suffer in alliance with a partner. It doesn't matter how your partner behaves, because of what you suffer. A common situation is the lack of love from a partner with whom the reader himself is in love.
If you understand that in a relationship with a partner you are lost, cease to be yourself, suffer, humiliate yourself, etc., you just have to want to no longer endure all this. What does it mean? It means no more wasting your time with a person who doesn't give you what you need.
Realize a simple thought: you are holding on to a person who does not do you anything good and pleasant. This is akin to as if you loved to eat tasteless dishes or lived in a garbage dump. You clearly understand that you don’t need to eat something tasteless, but it’s better to live in a house where it’s clean, pleasant, and comfortable. So, why don't you show the same clear consciousness in love relationships?
If your partner doesn’t love you, doesn’t want to be with you, doesn’t do anything good or pleasant for you, then why stay with him? You don't have to suffer. You don't have to be with a person just because you're already with them. You can change your attitude towards a partner who has become different, and not the same as he was at the beginning of the relationship.
Tell yourself: “Am I suicidal? I do not want to suffer". Tell yourself this every time you realize that you are attracted to a person who definitely does nothing good for you, does not love you, and does not do good. The sooner you let go of relationships that you are or are already suffering from, the less time you will have to spend on restoring your inner peace, increasing self-esteem, and becoming self-confident.